What is she into?
Find out what she is interested in and talk about it. Every girl loves
to talk about herself so allow her to do this. Use leading questions to keep
her talking and LISTEN TO WHAT SHE IS SAYING. It can give you valuable
information that can help you spark another conversation in the future and can
also help you decide whether you like her or not.
What are her
favourites?
Once there is a steady stream of conversation go ahead and find out what
her favourites are.
Here are some handy starters:
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Color
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Season
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Band
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Club
You get the idea. Go out and probe and then use your innate creativity
to gain some insight into what actually makes her tick.
Make her laugh
Now that you know a thing or two about her tell her some jokes or make a
joke about a shared interest.
Remember never make personal jokes about:
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Friends
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Family
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Home culture
She probably won’t find it funny and all the work that you have done
getting to know her will go to waste.
Comment on the
current situation
If you really do not have anything to say, then comment on the current
situation. This could be a great test for your conversational skills. If she
likes you, whether it be lust or completely platonic she will return and
perhaps even steer the conversation elsewhere.
Compliment her
Now that you are beginning to know her this is where you can start
giving her flattery. Chicks spend a lot of time getting ready in the morning so
compliment not just her appearance in general. Be specific, ‘I really like you
shoes’ or if their hair is looking particularly good then tell them ‘What you
did to your hair today looks great’. They will appreciate this and it will
improve your social bond.
Keep eye contact and
be natural
When you are talking to her remember to make plenty of eye contact. It
shows that you are engaging in the conversation and are interested in what they
have to say. It also asserts those all-important confidence points. Keep in
mind, chicks know when a guy is not being them self so for god sakes, do not
put on any sort of façade. They will find out soon enough and be put off very
quickly.
